What do you really need in 2023?
With the end of the year approaching, we inevitably look at our journey through 2022, acknowledging what has, or has not, gone well. We should especially use...
With the end of the year approaching, we inevitably look at our journey through 2022, acknowledging what has, or has not, gone well. We should especially use...
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The government has ruled out introducing changes to family law to provide greater protection for cohabiting couples. Amy Fallows Senior Associate Solicitor & H...
Successful business networking is built on referrals. Some of the big networking organisations use phrases like “meet, like know, trust,” and “givers gain”. The...
A telecommunications infrastructure company has been ordered to pay damages to a property developer after it failed to relocate a mobile phone mast in the sched...
Christmas and other holiday periods should be among the happiest times of a child’s life but sadly they are often marred by divorced and separated parents argui...
Criticism is something we all face at some point in life. Someone offering us an opinion relating to our work, or our views is just that, an opinion. It can often be that their opinion comes from a place of support and hoping to genuinely help us. We may even have invited the opinion. How it affects us is almost always about how we accept it. Do we react to it, or respond?
If you find yourself in a position of receiving a critical view from someone else, how do you accept it? Do you find yourself becoming indignant, or upset? If so the first thing to do is look inward, take a breath, and in that moment choose to respond from the heart rather than react from the ego. That breath allows you to let go of the impulse to react. Reaction can only reinforce that any criticism is negative, which is often not the case. Opening your heart to the opinions of others will bring you greater understanding of yourself and your business.
The other side of this is of course about how you offer criticism to others. You can reflect on the adage, “if you don’t want to hear the answer, don’t ask the question.” But use that moment of reflection to take the breath that allows you to respond, not react. Acknowledging that the question has been asked for a reason, and offering a constructive, positive response to a request for help will nourish relationships and strengthen respect for you and the support you offer to others.
Reflecting on 2022, how can you look again at your interactions with others. When offering or receiving support, or criticism, there is a simple phrase to keep in mind: “Breathe more, react less, respond in love.” As we suggested above, the ego reacts, but the heart responds, and we should always be looking to engage with criticism from a place of support and love rather than allowing the ego to overwhelm us and react from a place of annoyance or fear. Looking inwards helps us to take the moment that moves us beyond reaction, into considered response.
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We’re excited to join voluntary adoption agencies (VAAs) across the UK for Big Adoption Day and, as part of this, will be holding an online event on Wednesday 1...
On Wednesday, 15 January 2025, at 218 Tulketh Road, Ashton, Preston, PR2 1ES from 1pm to 3pm, we’re very excited to open our doors, to join voluntary adoption a...
On Wednesday, 15 January 2025, from 1pm to 3pm, Caritas Care are excited to open their doors to join voluntary adoption agencies (VAAs) across the UK for Big Ad...
On Wednesday, 15 January 2025 we’re excited to open our doors to join voluntary adoption agencies (VAAs) across the UK for Big Adoption Day. If you’re consideri...
Networking, GB Update and New ConnectionsAs our share platforms have continued to grow, so too have our online meet ups! Join us for our next fortnightly meet...
A host of lovely events from Booths at various Booths shops across the North West.